My GG Grandfather was also Theodore Arthur De Meur. He was born in Naples and his father was Clement Louis De Meur & his mother Elizabeth Bassano. Clement is listed as a soldier on Theodore's marriage cert. and the name is spelt as one word - Demeur. I would like to contact Lindadoh (Feb.08, 2005) to exchange info. Any help on De Meur or Bassano welcome. Thanks Nylaka.