So I had my appt. at the Philly consulate today and Lia was wonderful! So here are somethings that I thought I would share.
1) Be there before 9am so you can go first, otherwise you will be sitting there and waiting. I lucked out and got there a 8:45am
2) If your Italian born ancester has passed away in the US, you will need to make sure that their death certificate doesn't read that they were a citizen of the USA. If DC says this, you will have to provide all copies of Federal immigration, NARA, etc forms to the state that issued the DC and they will have to re-issue. And hopefully you aren't dealing with the stupid state of PA and having to wait 6-8 weeks for everything you send them.
3) If your or any person that is requesting dual citizenship was born OUTSIDE of the consulate region that you are requesting through, you will have to send your BC minus apostilles to your BIRTH region's consulate and request your BC be 'legalized', and then returned to you so that you can give to your CURRENT region consulate. I currently have NO idea how to do that (any knowledge or info greatly appreciated) and not exactly sure what that means.
All is all it was a quick and rather nice trip, and I am glad that I was already pending one document to send back to Lia otherwise I would have been greatly upset to learn about items 2 and 3 which I hadn't heard mentioned anywhere before. or maybe I just missed them. Whew! =-)

