Man, they really don't make this easy...
So I'm a US citizen living outside the US, and I'm getting citizenship through my great grandfather. End of a long road, I need to prove my mother and grandmother never renounced, with two documents stating that, except they won't tell me what they are and how to get them, because they don't know... it's this back and forth that seems endless.
Finally I found this:
http://myitaliancitizenship.com/downloads/AppforCit.PDF
So the consulate where I live, having no other suggestions or options as to how to proceed, typed up a formal letter to Italy, basically asking them for confirmation that should I fill out two part 3s of that PDF, notarized, that citizenship would be granted. Here's what I got back:
"Our Ministry has just answered, informing us that the self-statements we have proposed are suitable only for foreignen prospective citizens residing in Italy whose ancestors are born in Italy as well after the civil registrars have been enforced in our country.
Any other situation, like the ones you need to state (occurred or, in this case, never occurred) to your ancestors, must be stated at the consulates which have the jurisdiction, i.e. where your mother and grand-mother reside.
The same answer is also informing that no difficulty appears to be from the United States Authorities regarding the availability of such statements.
I can translate for you the message of our Ministry on the occasion of your next visit, if this could clarify better what is still requested for the completion of your Italian citizenship application.
My best regards,
"
Gah!
Help, please???


