That's sort of what I was thinking...I'm happy to pay for the costs, etc, I just would rather avoid delays. Worth a try, I suppose? I would call myself, but my Italian is embarrassing and there would surely be confusion.

Thank you, Peter I was having a conflicting address info, so that's a big help.

That was my first idea, I just was wondering if it was quicker to call or fax. Or if it's rude to have someone call on your behalf.

I have the exact dates, names, and places of my grandparents births, marriage. My friend's father has offered to write letters, translate or call for me.

Question is - to Mascali and Piedemonte Etneo (both Sicily), which would be the easier way?

Yep, I've heard of that - I thought it was just like father and son couldn't share a name, but grandfather and grandson could, but I'm not sure - my family all have different names.

Please let us know how the LA consulate was, I'll be applying there too and I never knew you could get a meeting before paperwork!