Il Malocchio, the Evil Eye
Italians have a long and deep-rooted tradition of beliefs about luck and things that give either good or bad luck. In Italy there are colloquial names for bad luck. Think of:"sfiga" or "jella" (read it as "yella), but the most scary thing for millions of Italians is "Il Malocchio", which translate as "the evil eye".
Il Malocchio is a condition of unluckiness that comes from someone or something else. Its origin usually lies in envy and according to elders the bad luck can be caused intentionally and unintentionally. The origin of this belief can be dated back as far as the ancient Greeks and Romans. They believed in the negative power of envy. A state that can cause an enormous amount of bad luck to the envied subject. Humans were warned to not brag too much because even Immortal Gods could become jealous of human happiness and luck and destroy their life. Many Italian still don't say a baby or child is beautiful, neither do they want to hear someone saying this about their child. This can cause il Malocchio.
The Roman poet Catullus wrote to his lover, after asking her thousands and thousands of kisses "conturbabimus illa ne sciamus, / aut nequis malus invidere possit, / cum tantum sciat esse basiorum" that can be translated: we will mix and confuse all of them, so evil people will not be able to give us the evil eye because of this high number of kisses.
So, as you can see, talking about Malocchio is talking about the same origin of what nowadays is Italian culture. Besides knowing the origin of Malocchio and that avoiding making people too jealous is how to prevent it, it is very important to know how to find out if you are the subject of the evil eye. According to popular traditions there is a list of signs that may indicate this. Think of: being particularly goofy, losing things and missing opportunities, doing bad things while we usually do good which also can be felt as a sensation of illness and weakness.
To avoid and protect themselves from il Malocchio Italians use amulets. Protective gestures are very important. For example; when someone is talking with a lot of pride, he can use the expression "facendo corna" close the hand in a fist rising the forefinger and the little finger creating a pair of horns. Horns are a very powerful symbol to avoid il Malocchio and bad luck in general. Italians can make this gesture when they see someone that they consider particularly envious, able to bring bad luck or when someone is wishing something bad. Another gesture is touching something made of iron or touching the genitals (for men).
These gestures are considered particularly unclassy and no one makes them in a formal or elegant context.
The power of horns as phallic symbol can be reproduced using amulets in forms of horns: these amulets are called "cornetti" and are very common in Italy. They usually look like a red hot pepper, since they are colored in red. The color red is being used because in the past to obtain the the strongest effect the amulet had to be made from red coral. You can see "cornetti" against the Malocchio basically everywhere, hanging somewhere in Italian cars and places to take away the evil eye from that person, family or activity.
I have had the evil eye removed many times, I believe it is called the Faschna (spelling) only to come back again. I now do the horns when people are envious of me for what I don't know, because I am a confident woman? I also believe I put the evil eye on some ex boyfriends and it worked. It was scary that what I wished on them came true. I was also taught by sending the purple light to those who hurt me.
Many experiences, too many to mention.
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